I’m sitting in a coffee shop with my laptop. Just me. And my laptop. This is the first time I’ve done this in…so so long. My phone’s on 1% and, aimless and feeling a bit lost, I spend that 1% looking at my old pics. And the weirdest thing happens: I start to remember who…
The infinite power of silence doesn’t get enough, well, airtime. Which, in a roundabout way, is exactly the point. How, in this world of 24/7 entertainment, social media, news, programming and do, do, do, can something as subtle as silence be honored (by talking about it?) or even acknowledged? Musicians will always tell you that the…
The infinite power of silence doesn’t get enough, well, airtime. Which, in a roundabout way, is exactly the point. How, in this world of 24/7 entertainment, social media, news, programming and do, do, do, can something as subtle as silence be honored or even acknowledged? Musicians will always tell you that the rest (read: silence)…
The other night, Kyle and I listened to an Abraham Hicks recording on relationships. During the video, a woman asked a question about not getting what she wanted in a relationship, and the answer was basically…do what you love. It reminded me that one of my mentors, Amir Zoghi, has said exactly the same thing…Think you…
The Need to be Seen. God. What a burden! What an albatross around the neck of the person who feels it and for the relationship where the need to be seen is manifesting its ugly fruits–neediness, resentment, hurt, anger, despair. Like most maladaptive beliefs and resulting behaviors, the person who believe s/he needs to be…
I am repotted. Correction: unpotted. Routed out of my old pot and planted in the ground this time. In many ways I’ve missed my old pot up until now; it was roomy and deep, and my roots took on the shape of the container. I could feel the perimeters of my pot, and if it was…